Monday kebaya thoughts

Heart, feelings and emotions - if only it can be calculated.



It wouldn't make this world any better though. Maybe it could justify to someone how much you love them, how much they hate it when you fight because of money, how much they hate that "babi hutan", how many times they miss you and how much they miss you, how they really appriciates the little things you do just to make them happy.. i like this quote..


At least I know who I can't live without. *feeling blessed!*

by Ms. Chaya

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as i was reading..

yesterday, there was this ad on the newspaper promoting the idea of 1Mas (Yah. the new thing in town). it tries to send a message to malaysians that we are all like ABC - made up of different and variety of stuff, blend in together in a bowl - to make a splendid ABC that everybody loves. well, i wouldn't disagree on the 'variety and blend' idea, but to say that everybody loves it? hmm...think again. ABC is made up of ice which also means that it is cold. and to some, they cannot take ABC or ice cream or anything that is too cold (that explains why they have Sensodyne in stores). My point is, to say that something is like something, is truely not an easy task. a good research must be carried out on the issue being proposed. the effort is there, but please..be realistic. ABC is made up of so many ingredients and all of them are totally different in shape and colour. i (a little tiny miny dot on this land), would prefer visitors from other countries to see the citizens of this country in one colour. and not in variety. we live as one. therefore we should be recognised as one. not as ABC.

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Mellow yellow monday thoughts

by Ms Chaya

There should be a reason to why a certain person acts a certain way. I like to think that way most of the time and when my mood goes away I just ignore - simple.

Today's monday is different. I feel something changing and I can't ask my brain to not think about it. Could it be that I'm wearing yellow? Maybe.

I went to a wedding yesterday. It was a beautiful day, beautiful bride and groom and a typical malay wedding. Just one thought though, why do malay couples get married young? By young I mean just graduated, got a first job, barely can support oneself and let alone a family!

Some of their reply was : family force them to get married (tak bagus couple lama-lama nanti tak sedap dipandang orang) and some say they've found the one (ok that one I can't argue).

Malay culture and habits have always been dependant on what others would think. So does this mean that there are people out there who marry young just to justify how people would look on them? Have they ever thought about how they're going to pay for the loan they took for the wedding? (Maybe their rich parents are paying eh?) What about how many kids they plan to have and the money to support the child's needs and education? (Why need planning? My wife can take care of them!) and the best part that I always hear ; "Dear, you don't have to work just quit your job and take care of the family after we get married." Lovely!

Can someone please justify my thoughts and comment on this?




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